BO JIO

LOL. this is fun. the IIDYT rarely debates about something interesting. but when we do, the topic is BO JIO. ahahaha. come to think of it it's kinda funny. and a little childish. but whatever.

anyways. the thing is, the group has grown so big, asking everybody to attend to every event is actually becoming tougher. with timetable clashes, busy schedule, everyone is busy with their own world. Hence, there starts the 'Bo Jio' thing.

At first, a lot people just use it as a joke. Hey, Bo jio! and you would know that fellow, who totally does not intend to be jio-ed, is just being playful and teasing you. On the other hand, when it happens within the group, it means a different thing. it means blaming the person of lack of thoughts, for bo sim, for forgetting to include EVERYONE.

then, when the usage is mixed up, when people use it for just everything, Bo Jio just seems like another annoying word. lunch Bo jio. toilet Bo jio. buy books Bo jio. just when does the list ends @@ sometimes, the person whom the phrase ' bojio' is directed to, just gets tired of being blamed ALL the time. At that time, no one would care whether its teasing or real blaming. it has become overload. that person would just get very very annoyed, right?

is there really a NEED to jio for everything. sigh. why this habit le. just say that you want to join, it's simple enough. just say you are sad that we didn't ask u to the event ( if you are truly sad), simple enough too. since the trend of this 'Bo jio' started, only did this NEED for jio came about right? didn't we all do just fine before that.

since everyone has different definitions for ' Bo jio'. maybe just be aware how this two words would sound like to others. Often, the person who speaks the words does not realize the impact of it on others. it's a bit selfish. no? also, the 'receiver' could just ignore. but that just means the word has already became meaningless.

til then.

ciao~