another end

Another crazy semester is ending. And, as usual, I take a stroll down the memory lane (my old blog posts) before summarizing for this semester.

This semester, things have gone through a BIG change, a whole new transformation, and maybe now in the process of reformation. Fate had it all arranged for us. the timing, the events, the people. And we can never be prepared for it, it swallowed us like a tsunami wave. And, there we are, some real shits in life.

I'm sad that things are not the same anymore. I'm sad that things have to happen the way they happened. but ya, I have went through it and came out from the other end a little stronger. Also, it's during the shits of life that I see the real beauty in people. Few of them, whom I'm so so thankful for. Also, some of the reality had hit me real hard in the face, telling me that it's life and I have to stick with it no matter how I don't like the things I don't like. 

Sigh I was wishing the trip would be a refreshing and relaxing one. who knows, more drama. Human emotions, are one of the things that are totally out of my control. I'm an engineer, that's why, I guess. gahhhh.

My new motto in life: optimism. since things are subject to changes so easily, there's bound to be a way out if these (There are two things i'm referring to here). We're really too young to just conclude anything.

Any how, another interesting and eventful semester of my university life has ended. Cheers, people, to one step closer to who we are gonna be, and what we have achieved in the 12 weeks. We are awesome v^^

til then

ciao

听心

外面、里面，很不同的两个世界。得分清楚。得学习两种世界的处事方式。得清楚知道自己在哪里，做着什么，和为的是什么。

要个简单的世界，其实复杂得很。警惕千万不要迷失自己。如果路是辛辛苦苦、精挑细选选出来的，千万要走得全心全意，走得满足，走得快乐。

在人多的时候，观察自己的言语；一个人的时候，观察自己的心。

是我的，就是我的。是吧？

no problem!

yep. I should STOP letting the little things affect me. NOT by complaining, not by trying to solve them, not by confronting them, not by walking away. Just by not letting them affect me! because, the truth is, those little things ain't a problem at all. they will only be the problem if I let them to be the problem.

so, cheers! just but smiling and by choosing to be awesome instead, it might just be problem-free. no sweat!!

时运高，看不到！too many things to be grateful of in my life, I ain't got time for them little 'problems' anyways. V^^

til then.

chaoz~

自己主宰

我的生命，自己主宰。长大咯，要对自己所有所有的一切附上责任。不能等别人安排，不能等命运安排。决定，到最后，是自己的。生活、人生里的成败，都只属于自己的。

可是，前途茫茫、疑惑重重，太多太多未知数，只能感到彷徨。对周围让自己得利的感到感恩，从朋友家人中得到力量和勇气。虽然还是没有答案，但那一切一定可以替自己减低负担，让自己肯定自己。

到最后的最后，生命还是由自己主宰。切记金玉良言、友人忠告，母亲遗言：带眼识人、坚强再坚强、从生命中吸取智慧，还有，要快乐。

“用心”二字，小学学来太简单了，在生活上，有多少人常常忽略这二字？用心，寻找意义。还有大把进步的空间。世界之大，一定有能容我之处。提起勇气来，再向过去的人生做出挑战。

所谓朋友

what are friends? Friends are the bunch of people you keep around yourself and in your life by CHOICE. and by choice, meaning friends might come and go. some would stay, some would leave. and things happen for a reason, so whether they stay or leave, there's always a reason. sometimes, it's the distance and different pathways that tore friends apart. in some cases, things just fall apart. And in each case, whether a friend stays or leave, tells a tale of yourself.

so, when a friend leaves. what does it mean? it might mean that you're not needed in their lives anymore, vice versa. or if it is due to conflict and discontentment that can't be resolved, it might just mean that your paths have differ, and the friendship is not meant to be. Also, a disappointing friendship may also be a lesson for you to reflect upon yourself. some mistakes, some doing of yourselves, have actually hurt the other person with you not realizing it. so, in a friendship that has fallen apart, you could choose to learn from it, or just walk away.

What about the friends who are still staying around you? Friends leaving and staying is actually just the same as a half-filled cup of water. you may view it as half full, or half empty. people stay beside you for a reason too. do they enjoy your company? do they want some benefits? do they just love being in a crowd of people? or do they really like who you are. It's quite important to realize this more than the other( the part about friends leaving). It's important to realize that people who hang around you, have, indeed, CHOSEN to be around you. isn't that something more precious? isn't that something to be treasured? and treasure it before it is GONE. the same things don't work FOREVER. people change. so do you. also, realizing that means knowing what your strengths are. if you know why people love being around you, it would give you confidence, motivation, and more reasons to do the same to others.

don't take things for granted. 人家对你好，是人情；不对你好，是道理。

just a few weeks, and I realized I'm not the simple girl who fails to realize and figure out things anymore. the more I discovered, the sadder, really. but, we're all grown ups now. don't expect happiness to be given by others. create your own, and infect others as well.

grasp the moment before it is gone. be thankful before it is too late.

til then.

ciao~